D-Day wrote:Ha! She's leaving him alone.whiskey_face wrote:just ask him "hows mah dick taste?" that should be the game winning headshot
I'm not opposed to her dating or getting out there at all. I certainly have been! What I am opposed to is my main friend who comes to my house every day asking her out and 'forgetting' to tell me for three consecutive days and then talking corny bullshit when I ask him what's the deal. He has ex girlfriends. Some are gorgeous. But I do fine and get my own women from outside of the pool of my friends' exes. He's capable of the same so I have no idea why he sought out my ex.D.o.S. wrote:Also, gonna voice an unpopular opinion and say three months is long enough for someone to be out of a relationship and therefore fair game. But I'm not the biggest proponent of monogamous, committed relationships, so my take is probably skewed.
Maybe I'm weird because I'm from Boise. It's a much larger town now but when I was young it was damn near literally impossible to hook up with a chick that some dude I knew hadn't already fucked. It grossed me out quite frankly. So when I moved to a city more than ten times the size I said never again. And I haven't because there's just no need. I don't need to be where my friends have been and I certainly don't wish to be any agent of hurt even if it's unintentional. I certainly don't want a virgin or anything (but strangely my last two LTR's were) I'd just rather not know the last guy(s) personally.
I have different views on dating ex's of friends. My biggest pet peeves are those who do it without telling their friend and those who act as if the women they have dated are some how their property and I need permission to do so. Not in any means implying this is how you view your ex's. If I have an ex, it's for a good reason(s). If my friends want to persue them I have no reason to say no or give a shit and even if I did object I can't do anything about it anyway. If there are lingering feelings still I may not be ok with it but it isn't my place to say. I dealt with a similar situation like this but I was talking to a friend's ex. I told him about it and it went fine. Or so it seems.
Either way, I would talk it out with him, specially if he is a good friend and make him understand that what he did is shitty. If they are happy together then you should be happy for them. If they end up being miserable and having a shitty break up then it's bitter sweet for you haha. Shit like this just isn't worth the stress though.
