jfrey wrote:jrmy wrote:jfrey wrote:I hate pits.
Basically anything that prevents me from standing still and concentrating on the music and the hands of the musicians.
Yeah, I mean, I like to bop around, and cannot stop myself from headbanging a bit to music that I like. Even some jostling and jumping is cool with me. But when I worry that I'm gonna get knocked on my ass onto a beer-soaked concrete floor? Not fun, nohow.
I get so focused on the music that even slight distractions piss me off. I've always thought that the more people move the less they are into the music. Think about any other thing you do. The more into it and focused you are the more still you become.
Nope. In my own experience of music, I totally disagree, 100%. I mean, I can't speak for you or your sensory experience, but I've been this way since birth. If I'm focused on music, some part of me is probably moving. That said, there are obvious limits - if I were in the pit, I would definitely not be focused on the music. But if I'm really feeling it and listening, I'll be tapping, or swaying, or head-bobbing, or possibly head-banging (not necessarily in accurate time/synch, mind you, but that's a whole 'nother issue).
So I guess that just means that if we go to shows together, we'll have to make sure there's adequate space between us that my focusing on the music doesn't impede your focusing on the music!

We can meet back up between sets for beers and to compare notes.