Jwar wrote:kosta wrote:I have info for you if you change that awful "Location", my guy. We're better than that!
Hah. Yea I can’t remember when I did that. In my defense, I most likely thought it was funny at the time. Meaning I don’t really have a defense.
One thing that has helped me a ton is learning which chords are available (traditionally) in each key. I copied a chart of them down manually at one point and began to see the relationships between major keys and minor keys. ("Wait what, the keys of Em and G major have the same chords???? Whooooooaaaaaaaa.") I never knew that every major key had a corresponding minor key before that!
A | F#m
A# | Gm
B | G#m
C | Am
C# | A#m
D | Bm
Eb | Cm
E | C#m
F | Dm
F# | Ebm
G | Em
Beginning to understand this helped me to be able to know which chords might sound "good" together (in a traditional sense) when I was trying to put together chord progressions, or even when I was trying to reverse engineer other people's songs by ear. This also helps to understand which notes might sound good for solo'ing or accenting on top top of chords for looper stuff or playing with other people.
I've also found it interesting and helpful to look at songs from a I-II-III-IV-V-VI-VII perspective. Like if a song uses the chords C, F, G, and Dm, that song is in the key of C and uses the I, IV, V, and II of C to build its chord changes. Once I can understand that, it's possible to transpose those changes into other keys which might be more comfortable to play or to sing along with.
So, if a song has this chord progression:
C-G-C-F
Dm-G-Am-C
That's in the key of C and is these positions:
I-V-I-IV
II-V-VI-I
If we wanted to do that in E, we'd just look for those positions in E, and voila:
E-B-E-A
Gm-B-C#m-E
Etc. etc.
This chart opened all of that up for me:
As far as the hand pain thing goes, maybe get lighter gauge strings, and see if your guitar is set up well? How is the string height at the first fret? If it's too high, maybe the nut slots could be lowered. How are the frets? Are they level enough to get nice smooth, low action? Does it need fretwork? Are the neck relief and neck angle (in the neck pocket) dialed in? If the guitar needs a set up, this might also contribute to feeling hard to play. Get it set up so that it's easy to fret notes and have them ring out cleanly. You don't want to have to fight the guitar at the same time that you're retraining your brain and your hands.
Hope this helps a little!