samzadgan wrote:Yes...my oldest friend who is almost like a brother (been friends for 25 years, since our early teens)...this guy is a complete extravert, when he steps into a party he owns it...he has charm and women are just attracted to him...not for his looks mind you, we both know im the better looking one, but he has the personality. But like you say, we are two complete opposites but together however we have are as close as we are with our siblings, sometimes even closer.
Exactly. My friend recognizes that I'm a better guitar player than him, but I recognize his talents and allow him to shine, because that's what makes him happy. Once I let him have his moments, he brings me in and never lets me leave. You can't be alpha male and be his friend-friend. He has to be alpha. Not in the sense that he will mock you to better his position in front of others. He just likes to be in charge and is generally a very smart and capable guy, so I trust him to take the lead role.
