dubkitty wrote:the ex-gf just came over with one of her dykey support-group people for an hour and a half of packing stuff. the passive-aggressive nature of the whole trip is driving me batshit...they wouldn't let me help with anything, but i had to watch everything they do so i made sure nothing disputable got packed/disappeared, and they totally refused to converse with me like a normal human. at least when her dad comes we can talk and shit. i basically told her i wanted all of her shit gone by the time the movers were done next weekend; she said that was her goal. Dan is supposed to get here in about a month. i want this shit fucking OVER with. if the doors were wide enough and it wouldn't fuck the carpets i'd be dee-lighted to just get a front-end loader in and shovel all her shit into the fucking driveway at this point. get it over with already.
Man, i've been periodically following this shit and even i'm getting pissed off with her now, she's just dragging it out, it should have taken 3 trips maximum, how much shit does she have.
If it wouldn't cause problems/be slightly mental i'd have just gone 3 times and what's left i'm setting fire to.
And bringing a long friends like that is not cool, just seems like a cry of 'Oh look I have new friends, they can see what *you're* like' Take pride you've not reverted to a 'group of friends' to help you, way I see it, bitching (not saying you're bitching, you know what I mean) on here is not the same as finding some group of 'like minded people' we're all diverse on here but she's gone straight to where she can get some attention and agreement.
I'm glad you've reached the next chapter of the break up... the go burn you bitch stage... Kubler Ross needs to re-write those 5 stages to include that.
Your mate will be a big help I think, go back out there and tear some shit up, get gigging, go drinking, meet yourself someone new, look forward to new things to come!