OK, so I was just going to steer clear of this thread, because i thought my feelings had been pretty well laid out by others already, but a HC thread has me changing my mind. I'll post the link after I say a few things about gender roles in my family.
My family is basically 180 from what would have been a stable 1950s norm.
-My wife is a union carpenter, who builds huge commercial structures. I am a stay at home dad with aspirations of finishing college and becoming a teacher of japanese. I cook, clean (kind of), shop, change diapers and raise kids. She makes the $, and works hard doing it.
-She plays soccer (a largely unisex sport, but I don't play any). She hikes and likes to exercise. I don't.
-She likes cars, and I could care less.
-She was in the band we are now both in for years before I came in to fill in for the drummer that left. She probably has double the stage experience that I do.
Basically, as far as I can tell, traditional gender roles are almost meaningless in my family.
Now, if you can stomach some pretty extreme idiocy and sexism you should read this, WTF?!!?!?!?!
http://acapella.harmony-central.com/for ... ?t=2260155I don't have an account there and don't really want one, but nobody has told these guys off? uuuggghhhhhh
On a related note, I think Captain Ahab are doing some of the best gender subversive music right now. Two fairly rich straight white dudes from LA make music that really pushing some gender issues to the extreme. Amazing live.