I do agree with this. In principle you're 100% right. If the other party thinks it's a fair payment then it's yours. However I think it's the relationship element implies some level of wish for the person to use it? Like a gift to a friend. It's theirs so if they sell it that's their business but I'd feel kinda bad if they did it straight away.Gone Fission wrote:I’m pretty much here, but I don’t have the relationship with the guy that you do. If this isn’t a “here, hold my collateral until I have the cash” sort of deal, this is being offered as fair value for services rendered to close the debt. Yours to keep, sell, or destroy as it tickles you. But don’t destroy it.manymanyhaha wrote:But it wouldn't be a dick move if you chose to use the cash he pays however you wish so I'm not quite understanding why it would matter if you turnaround and sold it?
I don't think this is entirely logical. I'm just explaining why I'd feel the same as Scruffie in that situation.
