The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread...

[delaydecay]

IM STILL GONNA JERK OFF TO JWOWW TITS. IM PRETTY SURE MY JIZZ IS GOING TO BE AS BLACK AND SMELLY AS THE PLAGUE.

GRRRRRRRR

[Waterpilot]

I'm frustrated.

[Officer Bukowski]

I just got back from being arrested for a DUI.

Fucking fuck.

[MEC]

I just got back from being arrested for a DUI.
Fucking fuck.

Look at the bright side...no one is dead!

[behndy]

I had my nose broken my an ex with a full beer bottle. I picked her up by the shoulders set her on her couch and told her to "sit down and shut up". I spent 4 days in jail

Thats seriously fucked.
I hate the double standards people have over gender inequality.

If I remember the statistic correctly, men spend 40% more time in jail for the same crimes as female offenders.

This is a good video about it and related issues.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vp8tToFv-bA[/youtube]

the concept of Male Disposability is interesting, i was definitely raised to keep that in mind and i've never even really thought about it at a societal level. very interesting. but i could only watch about 5 minutes of that because the way she chuckles at her own points every twelve seconds makes me want to punch puppies.

hurm. i guess a caveat to the way i think about hitting women is that if they're able to hurt you, protect yourself. but.... i don't hit women. if a grrL came at me with a knife or a gun, yeah. i would do whatever i needed to not get hurt. but maybe it's from being a big guy and somebody that has never really started fights, i don't really feel at risk when i've had grrLs be violent towards me. i've had partners slap me, which if it was a guy that slapped me it's a fight, i've had where friends that are grrLs have done stupid shit and 7 grrLs come to whoop that ass and i've held them off while they punched and scratched and kicked me.... i just don't think you throw a punch at a grrL unless you're in danger.

i'd like to think that if i was in a relationship with a woman that thought it was ok to try to beat my ass we'd figure that ut or end it pretty quick. i've never been with a grrL that took advantage of the double standard, so that's really hypothetical for me. but i have had grrLs that thought it was ok that if words got heated to throw a slap and i've told them that i don't do that, if we can't have arguments without trying to physically hurt each other we're done.

i guess for me it IS how i was raised and that i'm a bit bigger. i grew up with my brother that's four months younger than me and my brother that's four years younger than me, both guys that are not as tall as me but always played football and are big STRONG doods. my dad is also around 6 foot and a big guy, so being in a house with 4 guys at various stages of being large males and my mom being the main authority figure, not hitting or getting physical with woman got beat into me pretty early. and if i (i'm about 6'4 and 260 lbs) punched a woman (especially since i usually end up with grrLs that are around 5 ft - 5.5 ft), that would be..... messy. so yeah, double-standard. but there are reasons. of COURSE there are woman that have trained and if i got in a fight with (i've been in enough fights to be able to handle myself ok, but i'm not a brawler or someone that's put in the time to be mad skilled) or boxed or sparred with they could kick my ass. but the average grrL and the average (especially larger guy) punch each other in the face? it's going to end way worse for the female.

so i dunno what's right in a long term relationship that you don't end where the woman thinks it's ok to attack the guy. i'd like to think i'd just take a lick or two and then get out. if it's someone that you still want to be with i don't know how you figure that out. i just don't hit women. i'll walk away from shit that i wouldn't take off of a guy, but that's just how i am. might be silly in modern times but you have to be who you are.

and this fucker that if i ever find out somewhere? he threw punches at my friend's face first. she's boxed some so she said she got in 4 or 5 good punches after he punched her and tried to gouge out an eye, but i'm.... actually a bit afraid of being able to stop if i do run into him and start beating the shit out of him. i don't have a lot of friends. i'm very protective of the ones i do. and i ADORE this grrL.

[mattar]

So ive been waiting for my tax return for fucking forever so my dads accountant friend say he will look into it for me. He looks into it an my ID been stolen and their back log on ID theft is 6-10 months, 6-10 mother fucking long ass moths before i will get my tax return after i have waited for what already seems like forever. What really pisses me off is when the fuck where they gonna let me know. I guess i have a longer period of time to plan what gear im gonna buy with it.

[Waterpilot]

I just got back from being arrested for a DUI.

Fucking fuck.

Oh that sucks. Hire an Attorney. Laws differ from State to State but here in WA, if it's your first one, it can be reduced.

[dubkitty]

word. do not try to defend yourself on a DUI; get a lawyer who knows the ritual.

[Officer Bukowski]

I had a clean record until now. I'm not gonna be able to afford an attorney and I said some pretty incriminating stuff last night in order to get of on a ticket. They breathalyzed me and took my blood too.

[Officer Bukowski]

Of course I denied everything up until they breathalyzed me, at which point lying would just piss off the cop and make him totally screw me over.

[sonidero]

Look in the phone book or online and FIND a lawyer that will work with you... Defense Attorneys will almost ALWAYS work a deal on payment... When I was younger my dad would get free beef and chickens or unlimited beans and tortillas from random cases... Just sayin you should look around, under 21 and you don't want this hanging over your head forever...

[snipelfritz]

My right palm/thumb is splitting open and I'm not sure why.

[Officer Bukowski]

Look in the phone book or online and FIND a lawyer that will work with you... Defense Attorneys will almost ALWAYS work a deal on payment... When I was younger my dad would get free beef and chickens or unlimited beans and tortillas from random cases... Just sayin you should look around, under 21 and you don't want this hanging over your head forever...

Yeah I'll look around but I dunno man..

[Officer Bukowski]

Well it looks like I'll be able to get a lawyer after all.

One thing I noticed last night was that I was never read my Miranda rights until I had already done sobriety tests, got asked a bunch of questions like "what was the last thing you ate" and ultimately got handcuffed and taken back to the station. They only read me my rights before they breathalyzed me at the station after I hald already been detained.

I'm not sure if that's legal, or if I'll be able to prove that in court, but it seemed wrong to me and I made a mental note of it.

[the_carl]

One thing I noticed last night was that I was never read my Miranda rights until I had already done sobriety tests

They don't have to read you your rights until you have officially been taken into custody, i.e. arrested.