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bigchiefbc wrote:MOTHERFUCKER. The state just cancelled my wife's unemployment benefits, because someone stole her social security number and is using it to work in another state. SON OF A FUCKING BITCH.

not fucking cool

Just a fucking let down of an afternoon. My girlfriend was supposed to come over before I got out of work, and I'd get to come home to her being here (sounds stupid, but I was excited). And we haven't seen each other in a few weeks. She had to cancel because her mom is sick, and we're still planning to meet up for a bit, but I can't get ahold of her.

Oh, and my brain tortures me with posibilities all the fucking time, so I was hopeful that maybe it was a fakeout, and she'd be here when I got home anyway. Well, the key was still in the mailbox where I put it. Maybe it's a fakeout, and she'll be in the living room. Nope. Maybe she's in my room. Light's off. Maybe she's being sneaky and is waiting for me on my bed. Nope.

I'm just going to sit here and feel defeated for a while longer.

re: unemployment: your wife should be able to get this sorted out by presenting herself at the unemployment office and appealing the decision. assuming she prevails in the appeal, they'll have to pay her back benefits for the period in which she was cut off. she should appeal immediately. the process for appealing should by Federal law be explained in the documents they sent telling her she'd been cut off. go after them. she has rights under Federal and state law...use and demand them.

dubkitty wrote:re: unemployment: your wife should be able to get this sorted out by presenting herself at the unemployment office and appealing the decision. assuming she prevails in the appeal, they'll have to pay her back benefits for the period in which she was cut off. she should appeal immediately. the process for appealing should by Federal law be explained in the documents they sent telling her she'd been cut off. go after them. she has rights under Federal and state law...use and demand them.

No documents yet. We didn't find out this was an issue until she called in today to file for the standard extension. They told her to go file a police report, which we did this afternoon. Monday morning, she's going to take the police report and all her documentation to the unemployment office. What a pain in the ass.

yeah, it sucks. i'm sorry you have to deal with this.

Awwwww, my tum-tum no feel so good.

I am fucking FREAKING OUT and have been all day and it's awful, and what is it about? Tomorrow I'm going to see a band I like with a guy I like. Terrifying, I know. But I've spent the entire day anxious as fuck, shaking, feeling sick from worrying and completely dreading it. This is SO MUCH FUN and may have something to do with why I haven't had a relationship/sex in 3.5 years. Or maybe it's the other way round. All I know is I'm completely terrified, even though I know how stupid that is.

I hate hearing people go on about the "thrill of the chase" or whatever with relationships. Yep, being so nervous I've nearly been sick is such a thrill.

I thought I was being a good listener to unrealistic rambling that I really don't have much of a response for myself, but y'know, at least I'm trying to be a bouncing wall or whatever. But then ya give me a smart-ass pat on the shoulder and "thanks for all the feedback"?

WHUT?

Didn't really piss me off, but man that was disappointing. Really? I didn't have to sit there in that hostile air, you know. I thought I was trying to be supportive...?
I'm not going to be anybody's yes-man though.

just found out that since the economy has purportedly improved enough that California's unemployment is no longer 10% worse than the national rate, they're discontinuing the final Federal UI extension. this means i get cut off in August rather than in December if i don't find something before then. imagine my excitement. i'm starting to think about getting in touch with my brother who i haven't talked to in years and seeing if he could put me up if i go back to Chicago, where i'm actually getting occasional temp offers from an agency that was working on a position out here for me that fell through.

It's 5:30am and I just fucking spilled some coffee on my god damn new sheets.

someone is pretty subtly trying to avoid the shit out of me but still being super affable and even flirtatious when we do talk. WHY WOULD ANYONE NOT WANT TO HANG OUT WITH ME, I'M AWESOME.

why can't i have non-platonic interactions with guys in a way that doesn't thoroughly frustrate and confuse me?

i just got a job and it might prevent me from going to see xiu xiu in two weeks.

if it's confirmed that i cant go i will probably cry.

unownunown wrote:someone is pretty subtly trying to avoid the shit out of me but still being super affable and even flirtatious when we do talk. WHY WOULD ANYONE NOT WANT TO HANG OUT WITH ME, I'M AWESOME.

why can't i have non-platonic interactions with guys in a way that doesn't thoroughly frustrate and confuse me?

LET'S BEE FRIENDS EPI.

I HAVE A GF THO.

BEST FRIENDS FOREVER CALE. BFFC! i want to meet your girlfriend. like really bad.

also that fucking sucks about your new job. BUT FRIENDSHIP WILL CURE ALL.

Bought a carton of blueberries yesterday to put in my cereal in the mornings. Wake up this morning, and find that my girlfriend ate ALL of the blueberries.

Food issues are the one thing I hate about living with women. My male roommates have never touched my food. My female roommates will just eat whatever is around regardless of whether it is theirs. And, now that my girlfriend and I live together, it's even worse. I don't mind if she eats whatever she wants, just leave a little bit of it for me. I mean it was like a pound of blueberries. That would have lasted me like 2 weeks. She ate them all in one night, during the 1 hour nap I took. And this is after I had already made her dinner.