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Brandsmannen wrote:It just struck me it's the second year in a row we lost a member around the holidays. But struck equally really hard for different reasons, but this shit is so sad. I'm sad I didn't get to interact with her more, just the occasional talk about drum machines and applicable fuzzes for them.

Cheers to the best Internet community I've ever known

Brandsmannen wrote:Cheers to the best Internet community I've ever known

Invisible Man wrote:Hope it's cool to do this, but here's one more sample of PV from a PM conversation:

psychic vampire wrote:Thought a lot about what you said while i was camping in the woods with 350-odd queer and trans people, running sound for what is ostensibly a music festival and dance party, but might just be an excuse to get stupid and fist a stranger on top of a car or do a BDSM scene in a barn. I spent two hours alone one morning, wondering if i'm actually still an anarchist, since i feel such a deep and intense personal disaffection with everything that word has come to mean in my communities, and i never felt very actively concerned about projects that amount to social work. It doesn't really matter, but shedding identities in favor of mutability seems more interesting.

Had a long conversation about trying to build the spaces where happiness can be found more commonly and expanding those moments, it turned into talk about joy vs happiness. Whatever the case, i think you're right, and am really, truly thankful you said what you did. I should choose joy and happiness.

I hope you're doing well. I'm reading things and trying to figure out the upcoming next step, but i think June and July are going to be good months. Have a good day.

So: anarchism, fisting, genuine expression of complex struggles and emotions.

You'll be missed.

friendship wrote:It is infuriating and disgusting that the news would disrespect her memory by refusing to recognize her gender...

Faldoe wrote:I didn't know she lived/moved out here. I also always enjoyed her posts.

This is all really fucking sad.

popvulture wrote:

Brandsmannen wrote:Cheers to the best Internet community I've ever known

This.

New Years resolution: aim for more irl ILF hangs.

Fluffytime wrote:

friendship wrote:It is infuriating and disgusting that the news would disrespect her memory by refusing to recognize her gender...

Yeah, that's pretty fucked up. I wonder why. Best case it's ignorance, worst case it's intentional.

UglyCasanova wrote:

Fluffytime wrote:

friendship wrote:It is infuriating and disgusting that the news would disrespect her memory by refusing to recognize her gender...

Yeah, that's pretty fucked up. I wonder why. Best case it's ignorance, worst case it's intentional.

I'm pretty sure they go by their birth certificates. Of course, if the journalists knew they were trans and still went with that info, it's fairly fucked up. Then you start adding in any possible family who opposed their child being transgendered and would like for their grown up but now deceased children to be referred to by their birth name and you've got a whole soup of fucked up.

behndy wrote:

Faldoe wrote:I didn't know she lived/moved out here. I also always enjoyed her posts.

This is all really fucking sad.

popvulture wrote:

Brandsmannen wrote:Cheers to the best Internet community I've ever known

This.

New Years resolution: aim for more irl ILF hangs.

seriously. i get busy and drop out of ILF posting some times, but i lurv you all.

didn't know she was local, would have loved to have met her in person.

. . . . . . . Oaklandish Meet Up would be AWESOME.