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Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 12:15 pm
by Fuzzy Picklez
jfrey wrote:The band I was joining just broke up...
BUMMER
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:08 pm
by DarkAxel
alexa. wrote:DarkAxel wrote:when i wrote to the Happiness etc shit thread i had an amazing weekend, i didn't expect my GF to ruin it in the end by some kind of elaborate emotional terrorism i don't really GET...
i don't know if she's doing it on purpose, she seems too sad for that... but i just don't know - don't like it a bit
Talk to her and open up, so that she can open up. She's probably having a conflict inside, but won't share cuz she's got this retarded view of the world that has nothing to do with reality. Girls tend to do that IDK
Think the bad hormone management (aka no masturbation) does that to them.
yeah, might be true... about masturbation...
yeah, she'S having a conflict... she always fastens to something and when it doesn't go exactly as she wanted to, she flips out and is kinda bitchy to everyone around or she breaks and is just absolutely nihilistic and pessimistic piece of sadness... teenage girls, right?
yeah, she's a choleric... and a teenager... and we love each other... it's like a TOTAL DYNAMITE SITUATION
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:10 pm
by Fuzzy Picklez
Worst coffee shits ever. Holy fuck.
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:15 pm
by jfrey
DarkAxel wrote:when i wrote to the Happiness etc shit thread i had an amazing weekend, i didn't expect my GF to ruin it in the end by some kind of elaborate emotional terrorism i don't really GET...
i don't know if she's doing it on purpose, she seems too sad for that... but i just don't know - don't like it a bit
You're in a long distance right now correct?
It's tough. The problem I think - for a lot of women at least, maybe not yours but I don't know - is that it isn't about making them happy, it's about distracting them from being miserable. And if you aren't there, well it's not easy for them to be distracted.
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:35 pm
by DarkAxel
Yeah, you're correct - a long distance one
the least and probably the most i could've done is i bought a webcam to be able to call her, see her and talk in some semi-normal way
it's not easy for both of us
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:36 pm
by dubkitty
waiting for the local Legal Aid to ring me back with an appointment for a half-hour consult with an attorney. the stuff my ex filed is so egregiously lame that i think i can get a lawyer to represent me at the hearing because he/she'll be able to demand fees/costs. it really makes me sad and disappointed, though, that somebody i used to love and who i still have feelings for has sunk to this level of spitefulness. not to mention hurt, furious, bitter, and pretty much disgusted with life itself. i'm like, why did i even bother to try for thirteen fucking years? that was a quarter of my fucking life.
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:38 pm
by theavondon
dubkitty wrote:waiting for the local Legal Aid to ring me back with an appointment for a half-hour consult with an attorney. the stuff my ex filed is so egregiously lame that i think i can get a lawyer to represent me at the hearing because he/she'll be able to demand fees/costs. it really makes me sad and disappointed, though, that somebody i used to love and who i still have feelings for has sunk to this level of spitefulness. not to mention hurt, furious, bitter, and pretty much disgusted with life itself. i'm like, why did i even bother to try for thirteen fucking years?
Well, why do we ever try?
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:38 pm
by DarkAxel
dubkitty wrote:waiting for the local Legal Aid to ring me back with an appointment for a half-hour consult with an attorney. the stuff my ex filed is so egregiously lame that i think i can get a lawyer to represent me at the hearing because he/she'll be able to demand fees/costs. it really makes me sad and disappointed, though, that somebody i used to love and who i still have feelings for has sunk to this level of spitefulness. not to mention hurt, furious, bitter, and pretty much disgusted with life itself. i'm like, why did i even bother to try for thirteen fucking years?
break ups put so much distance between people... it apparently doesn't matter for how long it last

sorry to hear that but in the long run it might be the best you could do... to avoid more damage
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:47 pm
by Gearmond
I hate when people argue for *insert garage rock band with gruff vocals here* as the first punk band.
1. theres a shitton of dudes like that who came out around the same time, even if they had no relation to eachother
2. the closest that gets to being true is The Sonics who actually had MUSIC that sounded like punk, and not just 1-4-5 with scratchy vocals and maybe lyrics about punk shit
2b. as if lyrics are an accurate way to define ANY genre
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 2:48 pm
by dubkitty
yeah, i know...i was just venting. the real drag is that i'll probably have to sue her just to settle everything and make her go away. we co-own two vehicles that she refuses to settle, and she thinks she can take the cats despite the fact that she abandoned them when she moved out.
for first punk band, i'm going with Johnny Kidd and the Pirates.
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 2:52 pm
by jfrey
*Not in reference to anyone above.
What happened to the don't be a dick policy? I hate it when people are needlessly antagonistic. Makes me want to give up forums.
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 3:27 pm
by unownunown
jfrey wrote:*Not in reference to anyone above.
What happened to the don't be a dick policy? I hate it when people are needlessly antagonistic. Makes me want to give up forums.
THIS.
one of my friends has taken it upon herself to be a total bitch for no fucking reason lately. and i mean i'm kind of sympathetic because she's 'going through some shit' right now but to a certain point i'm just like are you fucking serious? i feel like i can't even go out with her on the weekends because she's even bitchier when she's drunk and makes it obvious if she doesn't like someone i'm talking to and throws off the whole vibe man.
like i don't know about other people but i really enjoy being nice and pleasant and blah blah blah. positivity is contagious! smile at someone you don't know today!
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 3:33 pm
by jfrey
unownunown wrote:jfrey wrote:*Not in reference to anyone above.
What happened to the don't be a dick policy? I hate it when people are needlessly antagonistic. Makes me want to give up forums.
like i don't know about other people but i really enjoy being nice and pleasant and blah blah blah. positivity is contagious! smile at someone you don't know today!
100% with you on this. Online and IRL.
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 4:34 pm
by tuffteef
crap i ingested dairy today
gonna be a roller coaster of a day in my gut
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 4:36 pm
by Achtane
jfrey wrote:unownunown wrote:jfrey wrote:*Not in reference to anyone above.
What happened to the don't be a dick policy? I hate it when people are needlessly antagonistic. Makes me want to give up forums.
like i don't know about other people but i really enjoy being nice and pleasant and blah blah blah. positivity is contagious! smile at someone you don't know today!
100% with you on this. Online and IRL.
THISSSSSSS
but to a certain point i'm just like are you fucking serious?throws off the whole vibe man. THISSSSSS TOOOOOOOOOO