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The girl I'm seeing scares the shit out of me, sexually.
I am a pretty mellow and slow lover, I don't like to do the rabbit, I love slow movement. You get the picture. This calm I have makes me a good lover for women who for example had abuse experiences and the like. I actually had two girls with such a history and they both told me how great it was that I was so sensitive etc.
Now this new girl is a totally different sort. She knows what she wants and asks for it or simply takes it. This is good, don't get me wrong. But I can't handle it. On some subconscious level this scares the shit out of me. Which is frustrating because on the conscious level I think it's sexy as hell. I mean what's better than a girl telling you what she wants in all necessary detail? What's better than a girl that's a tad perverse?
Result of this emotional mess is that my ordinary light troubles with an erection have grown into a real problem. This girl makes me impotent by being too hot if that makes any sense. What to do? Any ideas? I definitely don't want her to change, because I know there is some sort of subconsciental problem that I need to solve and then I could enjoy her the way she is. First step is to talk to friends, definitely. I'm also considering counseling or medicines. (Maybe we should simply get stoned.)

phantasmagorovich wrote: (Maybe we should simply get stoned.)

Not such a bad idea.

This sounds like it might be a control issue. You like being in control? She's taking away your control? Not sure what to do, but it's something to consider.

phantasmagorovich wrote:The girl I'm seeing scares the shit out of me, sexually.
I am a pretty mellow and slow lover, I don't like to do the rabbit, I love slow movement. You get the picture. This calm I have makes me a good lover for women who for example had abuse experiences and the like. I actually had two girls with such a history and they both told me how great it was that I was so sensitive etc.
Now this new girl is a totally different sort. She knows what she wants and asks for it or simply takes it. This is good, don't get me wrong. But I can't handle it. On some subconscious level this scares the shit out of me. Which is frustrating because on the conscious level I think it's sexy as hell. I mean what's better than a girl telling you what she wants in all necessary detail? What's better than a girl that's a tad perverse?
Result of this emotional mess is that my ordinary light troubles with an erection have grown into a real problem. This girl makes me impotent by being too hot if that makes any sense. What to do? Any ideas? I definitely don't want her to change, because I know there is some sort of subconsciental problem that I need to solve and then I could enjoy her the way she is. First step is to talk to friends, definitely. I'm also considering counseling or medicines. (Maybe we should simply get stoned.)

Hahahah, I think you're lucky beyond imagination. I want that!
I get freaked out by constant slow sensitive sex tho. I like when it has variations, but really, I love to make my girls scream.
And ofc cuddle afterwards.

I almost said "I Love Fuzz" instead of the company name when I answered my work phone just now.

I have a feeling I'm just going to sit in the dark all night playing my new guitar until I fall asleep on the floor

skullservant wrote:I have a feeling I'm just going to sit in the dark all night playing my new guitar until I fall asleep on the floor

that's just beautiful..
I love playing my bass outside at 4a.m. when the birds start singing.

alexa. wrote:

skullservant wrote:I have a feeling I'm just going to sit in the dark all night playing my new guitar until I fall asleep on the floor

that's just beautiful..
I love playing my bass outside at 4a.m. when the birds start singing.

That sounds amazing... Makes me want to live in the wilderness and have loud outside jams whenever I wanted. That would be sweet I think, until it rained...

I fell asleep recording last night. I don't know how. But I was sitting on my floor mastering the piece I had put together and next thing I know it's 5:55am and I've woken up on the first alarm

^haha was it running the whole time u were sleep?

that would be one loooonnnnnng take my friend

Nah. Luckily I was just mastering it so after the 40 minute long take it just stopped playing hahahah

jfrey wrote:I almost said "I Love Fuzz" instead of the company name when I answered my work phone just now.

ever since i started "working" as a musician 4 days a week, i.... i... procrastinate practicing or recording or making merch because i know i have to do it.... i feel like i'm in school all over again not doing my assignments!!

behndy is the reason I type in caps on the internet.
HAVE YOU SEEN WHAT YOU'VE MADE ME INTO?
HAVE YOU?

jfrey wrote:I almost said "I Love Fuzz" instead of the company name when I answered my work phone just now.

Hahah that's great.

I've had an algal bloom for a couple of months and haven't really played it much because I thought it was a bit tame, so I sat down and really explored it. I fell in love!

*blushes*

oh YOU! rakish DEVIL. MUROArouOUR.