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kbithecrowing wrote:My mom has been dating this guy for a couple months and they're pretty happy together.
He's really into guitar and pedals and stuff which is kinda cool.

He also has two sons and for the life of me I can't remember the oldest one's name. We are all having Easter dinner together tomorrow and I don't know what to do. I could easily just ask my mom in private but I feel like a jackass and I'd be kind of embarrassed. Hope I remember before tomorrow....

Steve? Hobart? Bartholomew? Nebudchanezzar? Rumplestiltskin?

BARTHOLOMEW! OF COURSE!

But really, I think it's a really common name, and I also think it starts with a B. Maybe I'll just look up a list of baby names to jog my memory.

Buck? Bonzo?

Bernardo? Balthazar? Bonaventura? Billy Bob?

dubkitty wrote:Bernardo? Balthazar? Bonaventura? Billy Bob?

Oooh, Balthazar. Solid choice.

What about Baldric? Basil? Beauregard?

you shall name your first born son Baldric

a confession: the only Mustang i care about is a Ford

While I've had plenty of male, female, straight and gay friends, ALL of them have been white. I need me some diversity!

you can't create diversity where it doesn't exist. and you wouldn't befriend someone just because they were of a different race, would you? that's kind of a weird form of objectification.

kbithecrowing wrote:... I could easily just ask my mom in private but I feel like a jackass ...

Just ask your mom, jackass.

OOOO! BURN!! EFFECTIVE AND HELPFUL BURRRRRN!!

i feel really sad today. last night i had a dream where my gf came back to me and forgave me and loved me again like before things went all to hell. she was even willing to leave some of her stuff in storage so the house would be more liveable. it's struck me lately how much i'm still not over the breakup...the last time i was out with my friend Jane, Kim's awfulness came up in the context of her taking my cat away (which hasn't happened yet) and i wound up saying "no, she wasn't all horrible" and recounting things i loved about her until i was practically in tears and had to change the subject. which is fucked up considering that she was always controlling, and for the last few years was profoundly abusive. but i still miss the person she once was. it breaks my heart to be here, still cleaning up the rubble of the life we shared.

dubkitty wrote:you can't create diversity where it doesn't exist. and you wouldn't befriend someone just because they were of a different race, would you? that's kind of a weird form of objectification.

Fuck that pc pc bullcrap. Ima build me a stable!

But I really do live in the whitest place on earth.

Snippley Bippley -

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Dubby - sorry meng. breakups are always hard. sucks that there's nothing to do but struggle through until enough time has passed to be ok again. stay up homie.

i know. i'm actually doing pretty well, considering that it's been six months and we were together for thirteen years. in a perverse way the horribleness she exhibited before and after the split helped, because it gave me more motivation to get the fuck away from her...despite the fact that i'd really like to talk with her i've seriously considered trying to get a permanent restraining order against her because her shit has become so egregious. i would move out of state if i had anywhere to go just to get away from her and her petty harrassment through the courts; i doubt she could get Texas or Illinois to seize my cat for her.

dubkitty wrote:i feel really sad today. last night i had a dream where my gf came back to me and forgave me and loved me again like before things went all to hell. she was even willing to leave some of her stuff in storage so the house would be more liveable. it's struck me lately how much i'm still not over the breakup...the last time i was out with my friend Jane, Kim's awfulness came up in the context of her taking my cat away (which hasn't happened yet) and i wound up saying "no, she wasn't all horrible" and recounting things i loved about her until i was practically in tears and had to change the subject. which is fucked up considering that she was always controlling, and for the last few years was profoundly abusive. but i still miss the person she once was. it breaks my heart to be here, still cleaning up the rubble of the life we shared.

time always distorts feelings up... that's why some people get a feeling they can get back to someone because they don't really recall what was the reason to split

(and i'm not trying to exclude myself... i also don't say that time can't change thigs up so it might end up better, but sometimes the damage is irreversible... )

on the topic of breakups: i've found out i've been pretty fucked up lately because i have trouble being with myself, i don't appreciate myself and don't feel comfortable alone... funny thing - only with knowing about the issue helped me

oh and btw my latest ex is apparently the greatest and most worthy person i've dated, because she's the one that isn't treating me like crap after the breakup