Its worth noting that all of these except for the DW are vintage and most likely have roundover edges and 3ply shells and rerings. If you really wanna nerd out, check out this link for some descriptions of different edges
http://pdgood.us/drumshed/bearingedges.html.
To keep things short, roundovers are a bit mellower, have less sustain, are quieter and may be a little less forgiving with tuning (ive never had any trouble tuning mine), in other words, they sound vintage. I think that the mellower sound and less sustain will help accentuate the wanted punch.
C&C drums are probably the most popular modern manufacturer of these vintage-style drums, but also cost 1800+ new, which I think is near criminal when you have hundreds of the real vintage kits out there for 1/3 the price.
$550, white Rogers, 20x14, 14x10, 12x8
https://milwaukee.craigslist.org/msg/d/ ... 89301.html Good sizes, good brand.
$200, gold sparkle Premier Beverly, 20, 12, and 14 snare.
https://milwaukee.craigslist.org/msg/d/ ... 08909.html This is what I would get and just order a similar vintage floor tom from ebay or guitar center. While I said shallower would be better for the punch, theres a reason why every single drummer and drum maker consistently use a 16x16 floor tom- it just works.
$715, Tobacco sunburst DW, 18x14 kick, 10x6.5 tom, 13x9 floor tom, 13x5.5 snare.
https://milwaukee.craigslist.org/msg/d/ ... 63316.html
DW is probably the best major drum company currently in existence. Good sizes, good construction and good hardware on this one, but will most likely have the modern edges and thus a more "modern" sound.
$450, Blue sparkle Ludwig, 22, 12,15
https://madison.craigslist.org/msg/d/pr ... 17351.html Not a lot of info on this one. It says its been rewrapped, and the badges suggest 70's era. The kick has some pretty dinky spurs though. But again, good brand and good sizes.
$650, 70s chrome Ludwig, 28x14, 14x10, 16x10, 18x10.
https://milwaukee.craigslist.org/msg/d/ ... 51105.html
I love this one, straight Bonham sizes, though the shorter floor toms were definitely cut down, making me worry about the edges on them. Super cool kit though. a bit more of what I want than what it sounds like your wife wants haha, though I would be remiss not to include it.
If you also need a snare, cant go wrong with a vintage Ludwig. LM400, as cogweh said, is great. A Ludwig Acrolite is another classic that would prob cost a little bit less.
All this being said, your head choice is still going to make a world of difference. I prefer coated heads on top and bottom for a really fat, warm, vintage sound. If you want punch though, clear may be better for more definition. You most likely want a 2 ply on top (evans ec2, evans g2, remo emperor, remo pinstripe) and a 1 ply on the bottom (evans g1, remo ambassador). As stated earlier, remo powerstroke 3 on the kick is the only way to go. I use the aquarian kick pads over the evans or remo ones because they stick to the head a lot longer.