The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread...

[The Wood Wizard]

Hope they were good biscuits at least?

Im pissed because a friend of mine told me some not good/pretty terrible news about my current GF's past. Its in the past and she seems to have grown up but now I cant stop thinking about it and im goin nuts. I also dont wanna get to the source and be like "hey current GF, so whats this all about I heard it from a friend who heard it from her friends who know you" and look like a total ass.

ALSO, if it is true shell either lie and ill get mad, or shell be honest and ill be like, you used to suck a lot, hope thats not gunna repeat itself.

Fucking women cant keep their mouths shut, id rather be in the dark and happy right now. Shit was going great too. NOW WHAT DO I DO? Cry on the internet like a bitch for the world to see thats what! hahaha

[Big Mon]

No reefer 'til tomorrow. Fuck...I really don't like to drink until fall/winter. Fuck...
It's always easy to tell when I'm out of weed. I post waaaaay more on ILF and FB.

[snipelfritz]

You definitely give us dem deetz what she do. Smack? Crack? Hookin? Mercenary work in Sudan?

[Jeff-7]

I also dont wanna get to the source and be like "hey current GF, so whats this all about I heard it from a friend who heard it from her friends who know you"

As you seem to be aware, either way you approach this it will make you seem like an asshole. If she wants to talk about it let her do it in her own time and way. Maybe she wants to forget about that part of her past as well? Just focus on the here and now, too many people get hung up on the past and don't enjoy the moment. Besides, for now it all boils down to hearsay.

[The Wood Wizard]

No solid deets unless I hear it from her. But basically she was a shitty gf to some dude, (supposedly) and he was apparently a shitty person as well. She also dated a guy who abused her when she was in highschool, so she had her troubles and I understand thats hard to get over and would explain why she may have had issues being in a healthy relationship previously. Honestly I think well be ok given the fact that im way awesome and she goes out of her way to tell me how much she appreciates it. So it seems as if she understands that im not a scumbag and she treats me great in return and im being a jerk and freaking out over nothing...

And I get what you mean about the hearsay, unless I hear it from her ( or weasel it out of her best friend lol) no real proof. And yeah its in the past and we are in the now.

[IEatCats]

Got stood up on some pizza plans with work people. I guess they just weren't concrete enough?

Whatever. Picked up frozen pizzas and a red stripe talboy. Fuck it.

[goosekevin]

IM SO FUCKING STRESSED

[backwardsvoyager]

IM SO FUCKING STRESSED

ITS COOL, MAN
YOU GOT THIS

[Deltaphoenix]

I made plans to go look at a bunch of tattoo shops in Denver (which I live kind of near to) and try to find someone to get tattooed by so that I can hopefully get an apprenticeship in the future....but...I ended up not booking anything because I'm already so covered that if I'm going to get a bunch more from someone with this plan in mind, I want to make sure it works out! I'd be pissed if I spent a bunch of money and time getting my dwindling free space tattooed only to have someone say "no" when I try to ask to learn from them. It feels like a totally sink or swim situation. Either it would work out or I'll be shit out of luck (and money!), only with a few more nice tattoos to show for it.

My buddy owns a Tattoo Parlor. I would think putting together a portfolio of your art is a better way to get an apprenticeship rather than trying to get an in by being a good customer. I find asking for what I really want to be more effective, I just can't be too attached to to the outcome. This method saves me a lot of wasted time and hurt feelings.
I would do the research to find the tattoo artist that have a couple of month waiting list because those are the ones that are super talented and have a good reputation. Learning from someone like that will help you a lot in the long run. Also what type of tattoos do you want to do? Horror, Photo realistic, etc. You also need to find someone that is an absolute master of the style(s) that you want to do.
An apprenticeship is usually a lot of grunt work for awhile, cleaning the shop, running the front desk, doing whatever anybody else doesn't want to do in the shop. Of course it will get better if you can stick it out and you will learn how to tattoo. You will probably have to have a second job to survive for awhile.
If this is your dream, I say attack it and do it.

[bob the r0bot]

Betcha forgot about this "pro" jazzmaster didn't ya?

[John]

I am annoyed with myself for being too obsessed with a gorgeous babe I made out with last weekend. I have no excuse to complain since I have a steady woman plus some other random hoozers on the side, but man this chick is really cool and so fine. So I am angry with myself for thinking about her every day; I'm fucking 37 for fuck's sake, and should not be so damn teenager-y.

Well I'm seeing her again soon and I hope I can keep my cool. Whatever happens, I have to remember that this is not going to go anywhere beyond a random hookup, which is fine, really.

SexySummer2013 here we go.

[Mudfuzz]

Betcha forgot about this "pro" jazzmaster didn't ya?

change out that damned bridge for a jazzjag or a bigsby and I say that is the coolest jazz ever

[The Wood Wizard]

I am annoyed with myself for being too obsessed with a gorgeous babe I made out with last weekend. I have no excuse to complain since I have a steady woman plus some other random hoozers on the side, but man this chick is really cool and so fine. So I am angry with myself for thinking about her every day; I'm fucking 37 for fuck's sake, and should not be so damn teenager-y.

Well I'm seeing her again soon and I hope I can keep my cool. Whatever happens, I have to remember that this is not going to go anywhere beyond a random hookup, which is fine, really.

SexySummer2013 here we go.

I was with a great woman for a while, but met another good looking girl a few months later. She kissed me outside a bar. I couldnt stop thinking of her either. I soon left my then GF for her and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. I thought it would be no more than a random hookup too. you never know man, if youre willing to cheat all over youre woman you clearly arent all that into her.

[John]

I am annoyed with myself for being too obsessed with a gorgeous babe I made out with last weekend. I have no excuse to complain since I have a steady woman plus some other random hoozers on the side, but man this chick is really cool and so fine. So I am angry with myself for thinking about her every day; I'm fucking 37 for fuck's sake, and should not be so damn teenager-y.

Well I'm seeing her again soon and I hope I can keep my cool. Whatever happens, I have to remember that this is not going to go anywhere beyond a random hookup, which is fine, really.

SexySummer2013 here we go.

I was with a great woman for a while, but met another good looking girl a few months later. She kissed me outside a bar. I couldnt stop thinking of her either. I soon left my then GF for her and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. I thought it would be no more than a random hookup too. you never know man, if youre willing to cheat all over youre woman you clearly arent all that into her.

It's not cheating, we have an open relationship with no rules or restrictions on one another. Monogamy as most people know it is an institution of patriarchy and we do not choose to follow the gender roles of the past. I'll always be with my main squeeze in one way or another and the core of our relationship hasn't changed in 20 years, which is just the way we like it.

I typically do not get goo-goo over women I hook up with; we have our fun and move on with our lives. This particular bird happens to be the absolute hottest dish I have ever had my hands on, and I'm just a little blown away, that's all.

[The Wood Wizard]

ahh I wasnt aware of that aspect of what you two had goin. That info obviously changes a lot haha. I live differently and cant really imagine myself being cool with my lady fucking other dudes at all so I got no help for ya there. 20 years is a long time though, congrats on that.