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Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 2:54 pm
by kbit
Whoa dude. Blanket statements like that aren't cool, and neither is that second .gif.
I usually don't care & shrug shit like this off, but I really don't like to see that kind of prejudice here.
Regardless, I can tell you are quite upset. What's going on?
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 2:56 pm
by Ancient Astronaught
kbithecrowing wrote:Whoa dude. Blanket statements like that aren't cool, and neither is that second .gif.
I usually don't care & shrug shit like this off, but I really don't like to see that kind of prejudice here.
Regardless, I can tell you are quite upset. What's going on?
You have a very valid point, I'm gonna fix the post now... I never would actually do any of that nor condone it, i'm just really pissed right now and confronting the offending individual would not be wise so I needed to vent.
Basically someone very close to me whom happens to be female suffers from the early stages of hereditary schizophrenia and is off of her meds due to a more pressing medical condition which is preventing her from taking meds for about 6 more months. Thanks to the combination of the lack of meds and the hormonal shifts caused by the current condition, she is literally making up in her head conversations we had then repremanding me for not doing things she never told me to do yet has it in her head that she very much did tell me to do them. And calling her out on this makes the situation about a thousand times worse so I have to sit here and take it up the ass until she can get back on meds at the end of this year, 6 more months of a total lack of logic and being yelled at for things that never exsisted.
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 2:59 pm
by skullservant
I can also vouch that AA is a gentle giant who would do no harm to even a fly, unless it was to land on one of his amps. Hang in there buddy

My 'spite hate and rage' is that my wife is already talking about

and cannot understand why I would like to save a little money for at least a year or so before we go ahead with

Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 3:04 pm
by Ancient Astronaught
skullservant wrote:I can also vouch that AA is a gentle giant who would do no harm to even a fly, unless it was to land on one of his amps. Hang in there buddy

My 'spite hate and rage' is that my wife is already talking about

and cannot understand why I would like to save a little money for at least a year or so before we go ahead with

Thanks bud....
Trust me, i know your pain very very very VERY well. Once it gets in their head your doomed, and not int he good way.
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 3:06 pm
by skullservant
The sad part is she was talking about them while I was still in college, 3 hours away. There was no way I was going to make that happen. I know she wants to start a family so so bad, but I'd like some time to enjoy the fact that we live together and just got married, you know?
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 3:08 pm
by Ancient Astronaught
skullservant wrote:The sad part is she was talking about them while I was still in college, 3 hours away. There was no way I was going to make that happen. I know she wants to start a family so so bad, but I'd like some time to enjoy the fact that we live together and just got married, you know?
Oh I know, and thats what you should focus on. Learn from my mistake, if you live paycheck to paycheck don't do it! Once you both have stable jobs and can put away about 500$ a month after paying off all your bills, THEN do it.
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 3:11 pm
by skullservant
Yeah and that's what I keep trying to tell her. Until I get a job that pays MORE, we can't have a baby. We ARE living paycheck to paycheck and it sucks. I've tried reasoning that if we can barely afford ourselves, how can we afford another human?
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 3:14 pm
by Ancient Astronaught
skullservant wrote:Yeah and that's what I keep trying to tell her. Until I get a job that pays MORE, we can't have a baby. We ARE living paycheck to paycheck and it sucks. I've tried reasoning that if we can barely afford ourselves, how can we afford another human?
I hate to be a downer but good luck with that....

Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 3:16 pm
by skullservant
Haha thanks dude. It's a pretty uphill battle that we've had off and on but recently made a resurgence the past three days on top of a few other things that have just left me wayyyy drained
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 3:19 pm
by skullservant
That's funny, especially because my entire mom's side of the family and even my dad to an extent keep bugging us "WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE THIRTY" and that just adds to the fire
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 3:39 pm
by Deltaphoenix

Baby Fever isn't fun to deal with
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 3:39 pm
by Ancient Astronaught
skullservant wrote:That's funny, especially because my entire mom's side of the family and even my dad to an extent keep bugging us "WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE THIRTY" and that just adds to the fire
I did that, without getting the better job its still not enough........
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 3:42 pm
by skullservant
EXACRTY!!!
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 6:02 pm
by behndy
lol. got so into it you turned all Japanese Native on your answer. HAWT.
um. kids. scare my peen. inside out.
it turns into a vagina.
geeeeeeet snipped and don't tell her?
"fuck YEAH let's keep trying for kids!"
Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2013 7:55 pm
by kbit
Ancient Astronaught wrote:You have a very valid point, I'm gonna fix the post now... I never would actually do any of that nor condone it, i'm just really pissed right now and confronting the offending individual would not be wise so I needed to vent.
Basically someone very close to me whom happens to be female suffers from the early stages of hereditary schizophrenia and is off of her meds due to a more pressing medical condition which is preventing her from taking meds for about 6 more months. Thanks to the combination of the lack of meds and the hormonal shifts caused by the current condition, she is literally making up in her head conversations we had then repremanding me for not doing things she never told me to do yet has it in her head that she very much did tell me to do them. And calling her out on this makes the situation about a thousand times worse so I have to sit here and take it up the ass until she can get back on meds at the end of this year, 6 more months of a total lack of logic and being yelled at for things that never exsisted.
Thank you, dude; but that does sound like an incredibly stressful situation. I can't even imagine how frustrating that must be to have to fight against an emotional reaction to something that never even occurred. Hang in their, man
Is there any sort of counseling you/her can get while this is all going on?