veteransdaypoppy wrote:In regards to the college bubble thing, Sillius, I'd have to say that you're pretty much just stereotyping college students and expressing assumptions that you shouldn't be.
I think yer a cool cat, I dig some of the contributions you've made to the forum, but I'm not a big fan of what you said about the "college bubble."
I think you're being very, very derogatory, and in my opinion, well... uncool, man. I do not dig.
I used the bubble idea to try to express an idea about what the real world was like vs the world that MOST college students live in. While there are some (deadbeatroit obviously) that believe college is not some enclosed place where ideology abounds and the worlds problems are "solved" every day, others, like myself, that have been there and thought the same thing
while attending college, know differently. Hell, my bubble was burst again just three weeks ago when my daughter was born.
Every day is a new learning experience and I just feel - because I have been there (10 years worth) and experienced it - being fresh out of high school and having 3 or even 4 years of college doesn't lead one to have those all encompassing life experiences. While you may go to school where somebody on some part of the campus has hacked an intruder to death with a sword for breaking into a garage, or you may have a job or an internship that hopefully leads somewhere later on, or you read every newspaper you can get your hands on in the library, or perhaps you may even be going to college on your own dime (and not that of your parents), you still get to, at the end of the day, be most worried about whether you have studied enough for your exams to pass your classes (and honestly, some really don't even worry about that). Because you weren't at that house and your internship takes up only 6 hours a week and you don't have to start paying back your student loans until at least 6 months after you graduate - and even then you can defer them for a looooong time. (<<Yep, personal experience again.

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I went to college when I was 18 and again when I was 25. Two entirely different experiences. The second time, I realized what a bubble I had been living in when I went to college the first time. And again, while this bubble won't apply to everybody, I pretty sure that at least 85% of college kids DO live in that bubble. That's not an assumption. That's experience.
I'm sorry if I've offended those college students that don't believe they live in a bubble. Those that are working to pay their tuition and don't live at home with mom and dad, those that don't eat from the cafeteria's meal plan - those kids have the beginnings of what the future ahead may bring. But you cannot even begin to understand life until you're setting at the kitchen table trying to figure out how many more places you have to apply to before you will get another job because the last one laid you off and the state is sending you letters saying your unemployment benefits are running out, or wondering how you will continue to pay COBRA $1000 per month for health insurance for your family because you don't have a job, or trying to mathematically figure out how you will pay the heat bill for the house when your job isn't the steadiest of employment, or debating between whether you should pay to get the alternator fixed so you can drive to work or use that money to make the monthly car payment, or wondering whether you should withdraw the money out of your 401k because it has tanked and what little you do have left would be better in a savings account, or wondering how you're going to take care of your parents after one of them has had a stroke and is pretty much disabled and now they cannot take care of themselves, and on and on and on ....
So am I being derogatory? I don't think so. I just think I'm a little more realistic than those whose main concerns involve wondering how they are going to buy their next boutique pedal.
