vidret wrote:Is burning the body, spreading the ashes somewhere nice and giving the money to charity/living who need it an alternative?
It’s a shame that someone’s death should cost their close ones, as if death itself wasn’t enough.
However this goes and whatever you choose I hope you’ll feel content about it, jwar.
Unfortunately that part isn't up to me. His father has say in that. If it were up to me, I would have him cremated and then moved to a grave. I would love to sprinkle his ashes in Japan as well. He loved Japanese movies, anime, robots and just everything about the place. He never got to go though. It would make him smile I'm sure.
As far as reaching my goal.
I'm realistic and am almost positive I won't. However, what I will do instead if I can't is try to make where he is a bit nicer. Get an in ground flower pot. Maybe something else nice. I dunno. I'll come up with something.
Fucking real estate killed me this year. Who knows, maybe I'll get a big return?
