Re: The spite, hate, rage, apathy and mild irritation thread
Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2018 11:54 am
D.o.S. wrote:Jwar wrote:FUCK MY FAMILY.
Illegal in most states. Tread carefully.
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D.o.S. wrote:Jwar wrote:FUCK MY FAMILY.
Illegal in most states. Tread carefully.
Jwar wrote:My wife understands, my kids understand....no one else.
FUCK MY FAMILY. Fuck my friends. I'm getting to the point of no return. Nobody gives a shit how I am or how I feel. I'm just done.
friendship wrote:aens_wife wrote:Boundaries, friend. You don't need to keep your family in your daily life if they aren't good for you.
Sending you love and peace. I hope you get a break from the BS soon.
+1
Your wife and kids get you, and that means the world. They care about how you're doing and how you feel, right?
There's this big taboo against cutting family out of your life, but I think it's a taboo that exists to allow abusive/toxic people to never change or face consequences for their behavior. It sounds like they don't respect your time or effort and are taking advantage of you whenever you let them. It doesn't matter if you share DNA or not: that's not family. Put up firm boundaries and don't let them weasel their way over them, which I promise they will try to do. They'll probably try to leverage guilt and shame against you, but you know what? At this point, they owe you big time, not the other way around. Consider cutting the most toxic ones out of your life entirely. It changes your life for the better and you'll marvel at why you waited so long to do it.
Jwar wrote:Other suggestions welcome.
Blackened Soul wrote:Jwar wrote:Other suggestions welcome.
Start a band/noiseart commune
D.o.S. wrote:Ya that's not good. You have stopped smoking weed I presume? That doesn't usually help with panic attacks.
BitchPudding wrote:True that. Thank you, really.
Fairly certain that therapy will help. My biggest fear is what if it doesnt.
I want the help tho. So at least theres that.