So lately I've been throwing around the idea of learning drums. I'm a little torn between trying to put together a small kit - just a kick, snare, floor tom, hi-hat, and one cymbal? - or getting an electric kit. I'm sure my fiancee would appreciate an electric kit, but I think I'm leaning towards a small acoustic kit. At the moment, I really don't have a budget set aside for this; just trying to get an idea of what I'd need.
I would love to get to a point where I can integrate some synths and jam like this guy (I saw him open for Thom Yorke last year and that's partially where this idea is coming from):
Any suggestions for putting together a kit? Also, any suggestions for learning drums in the first place?